Small Story Big Moral…
Before you read this post, take it as a small, common story that may happen at anytime, any place. It is not necessary related to me or someone. Enjoy reading…
“Erk…Hmm”, long long time ago, in a southern province of china, there were two friends – A and B. A is quite handsome but B is quite chubby.
A always hurts B by saying he is fat. (Don’t know whether he said it intentionally or unintentionally). But, B doesn’t like A said like that. (In fact, no one likes people call them fat). Therefore, in order to respect his friend, one day, B told A never calls him fat again. But, this action had made A annoyed. And A starts to speak less with B. When B is trying to speak with A, A will say that he should not speak with B.
The moral of the story are:
1. If you have done something wrong to a person, you should not apologize, however you should angry with that person. (like a Chinese proverb “e ren xian gao zhuang”)
2. If you don’t like some people doing/saying/speaking/craping something, you shouldn’t tell him directly/sincerely, even if he/she is your friend. On the contrary, you should keep/store/hide it in the deep place in your heart, at the same time, smile at him/her seem nothing happen.
3. “Ren shan bei ren qi, ma shan bei ren qi” - The fiercer always the more right.
“Erk…Hmm”, long long time ago, in a southern province of china, there were two friends – A and B. A is quite handsome but B is quite chubby.
A always hurts B by saying he is fat. (Don’t know whether he said it intentionally or unintentionally). But, B doesn’t like A said like that. (In fact, no one likes people call them fat). Therefore, in order to respect his friend, one day, B told A never calls him fat again. But, this action had made A annoyed. And A starts to speak less with B. When B is trying to speak with A, A will say that he should not speak with B.
The moral of the story are:
1. If you have done something wrong to a person, you should not apologize, however you should angry with that person. (like a Chinese proverb “e ren xian gao zhuang”)
2. If you don’t like some people doing/saying/speaking/craping something, you shouldn’t tell him directly/sincerely, even if he/she is your friend. On the contrary, you should keep/store/hide it in the deep place in your heart, at the same time, smile at him/her seem nothing happen.
3. “Ren shan bei ren qi, ma shan bei ren qi” - The fiercer always the more right.
posted by Xavyer at 12:15 AM
3 Comments:
ah... i remember that story. mum told me when i was little. u din complete the story!!! haiyo!!!
B is a cute lil child, but he is a little fat. he always says he wanna lost weight. sometimes he seems can, but most of the time he just keep on eating till he gets fatter and fatter.
A is a friend of his, gets irritated when b starts to go crazy bout gaining weight. but the fact is B eats and eats. SIGH!!! and if B eats SO MUCH, its normal he gets fat.
B keeps insisting he isnt fat. but he is gaining weight almost most of the time. A looks at his friend. A teases him fat. A tells him he is fat. A dun mean insult. A wanna make B realise he is fat and if he doesnt want to be fat, he must lose weight.
B roared back "this is a warning. dun call me fat!"
A thoughts "ok. if u wanna maintain fat, let it be".
my mum said the moral of the actuali if u dun want other people to say things u dun like people to say bout u, u should not do those things in the first place. n she also says b knows not who is fren and who is not, who treats him well and who doesnt. mum says dun grow up to be like him.
Anonymous> Thanks for your reminder. Yes, of course, I haven't complete the story.
Of course, B know himself is fat. But what can he do? Liposuction? Diet? Or exercise? B know A is concerned about him, and then try to advise him. But there is no use for him to drive out the message at the public, seems like A is insulting B. What will happen if others accidentally heard. Therefore, B told A not to do so again. Maybe is a small warning.
However, the conflic now in this story is after the small warning, A refused to talk with B, seems like B has done something wrong. Of course, B knew who is his friend and who is not, who treats him well and who doesn't. So he tried to communicate with A(although not his fault), but seems difficult. What can he do? Who knows?
Usually, a story may have two ending-happy or sad ending. I prefer happy..
it takes long to call a friend, it takes only a moment of outburst to call a stranger. B is a person who knows not who is fren, who is not. B is a person who knows not who treats him well, who does not.
i suppose A forgot what type of person is be. sometimes, a friend forgets what type of person his fren his. stranger doesn. stranger sees clearly. stranger remembers.
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